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Brand New Dollhouse!

Today we would like to announce and introduce one of our newest products. The Zoe House is a modern dollhouse with all the flair and style a dollhouse should have. Best of all it comes fully furnished!  The Zoe House is in stock and ready to ship.  Price: $169.99

For more information on the Zoe House visit GroovyCoolToys.com today.

If you have a young child chances are good that you are struggling to teach them manners.  This is because manners are a social norm that we learn.  We aren’t born knowing that spitting out our food or pulling hair is rude (which is why toddlers and small children do these types of things so frequently).  We must be taught how to be polite to others.

There are two main things that you should do if you want your child to say, “Thank you” (and “Excuse me,” “Please,” and so on).

• Model Manners for Them

Your child will emulate what they see you doing.  If you want them to be polite, respectful and kind to others then you must be all of these things!  Say, “Thank you” to everyone… including your little one.  If they hand you their cup, say “Thank you!” and smile brightly.   They will quickly associate saying these words with receiving something positive.  It won’t be long until they are thanking you for handing them a cup, cracker or toy.  Model being polite in public by thanking cashiers, waitresses, strangers holding doors and so on.  Never miss an opportunity to show gratitude to others.  Not only will this be great for your child to see, it will make you and others feel great!

• Remind Them Often

Once they know that saying “Thank you” is the polite thing to do they will still need plenty of reminders.  Remind them at every opportunity.  Have them thank the bank teller themselves, teach them to thank others who provide them a service (i.e. the pediatrician) and remind them to say “Thank you” to you when you bring them their lunch or share a bite of your ice cream.  When they say it you should praise them, praise them, praise them!  You will be thrilled with the results! Soon it will be a habit… the kind of habit you WANT your kids to have!

If you invest a little bit of time early on, you will have the best mannered kid on the block.  The key is setting a great example and then giving them opportunities to emulate and practice what they have seen you do.   Small children want nothing more than for you to be pleased and proud.  Let them know they are on the right track with lots of positive reinforcement like praise, smiles, kisses and hugs!  The kissing and hugging part will be fun for you too!

If you are considering sending your child to preschool, you are probably nervous and excited.  Your children are the most important thing to you and you want to make sure they are prepared for this big step.  There is no magic secret for getting your little one ready and each child is different.  They are ready for preschool at different ages, have different interests, and have different personalities.

The most important thing is to let them see that YOU are excited since children look to their parents for cues about these types of things.  If they sense that you are nervous or apprehensive they will become uneasy themselves.  While showing them that you are excited you can work on skills that will help them to be prepared for the big first day of preschool!

Here are some ideas:

• Get excited about books and reading.  Read together every day and talk to them about how many great new books they will read in preschool.  Talk about letters, words and pictures that you see in their books.  Encourage them to make up their own stories or to read simple sight words that they may already recognize.
• Math should be incorporated into their daily lives.  Show them how fun math is by counting Cheerios at breakfast or talking about the numbers that you see on the price tags at the grocery store.  Always remind them that when they get to preschool they will learn more about math and numbers!
• Give them opportunities to socialize with other children.  Often, children come to preschool having never been out of their mother or father’s care.  Socialization is so important for small children and when they get to preschool they will be expected to play nicely, share and be kind.  Teach and reinforce these social skills.  Keep reminding them of all of the great new friends that they will make when they start preschool!

Most parents are already doing most of these things.  You probably read with your child, try and instill good social skills and practice simple mathematical concepts with them.  You probably don’t even realize you are doing it but you are preparing your child for preschool every day.  The most important thing is to get them excited about learning and about preschool so that they will enter that first day (tear!) with a great attitude and a big smile on their face.

This is a topic discussed frequently in our home. How about yours? An important concept we want to instill in our children is to always be thankful for family, friends and life. It’s important for their growth and maturity and is a quality I feel is somewhat lacking in today’s society.

Why do we feel it is important? It helps them in developing social skills which will be particularly important as they begin to form relationships. Learning to recognize and become sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of others is a big one.

Another reason is when children are thankful they are less likely to always focus on themselves.  As parents we do so much for our children and they should be able to respond with gratitude.

How can we teach our children to be thankful?

First start with teaching them to say please and thank you.  Start at a young age so it becomes deeply set into their character.  Remember children are sponges so “modeling” this behavior for them is probably the easiest way to teach them.  Practice what you preach!

Additional tips:

• At mealtime make it a point to discuss what you are thankful for.
• Talk about it often
• Encouragement and praise have a dramatic impact on gratitude.
• Ask them to help with age appropriate chores.
• Incorporate gratitude during playtime.
• Go to your local library and find books that are age appropriate.
• Encourage giving

What other tips have you found work well to encourage gratitude?

Good Morning!

This post is a little different than our normal product discussions. I really wanted to share my thoughts lately on parenting and how dynamic it is. As most of you know I have a 4 year old and almost 2 year old. Both boys, yet so uniquely different.  The lesson I have learned over the past few months and probably a little slow to pick up (smile) on is how many opportunities we as parents have to influence the lives of our children everyday. From the moment we wake and say that first “good morning” we are shaping how our children will react to daily interactions and situations.  Both our boys are very active; love sports, trucks and trains. We keep television to a minimum and play with toys that allow them to create the scene. I have acquired the skill of building tunnels using building blocks for the train set and making the choo choo sound!

Ok, back to the point of this post. Part of what I have been feeling is not only our interactions with them but how we interact with them. I’m not exactly sure why this now is “really” just hitting me but I have a very strong sense of my responsibilities to my children. For me I learn something new about myself and my children every time I interact with them and so I felt compelled to ask you the same.  Do you ever feel this way?

Nicole

We wanted to take a moment to share with you all a new shopping feature added to our site last month.  Over the past several months we had received several requests to be able to shop by price. We are always excited to add new site enhancements and hope this will help to create a positive shopping experience.  Your comments and suggestions are always appreciated!

Send us your review and we’ll send you a 10% off coupon good on any order placed through August 2012.

Thank you,

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We hope everyone is having a marvelous week.  As we begin to near the Holiday shopping season (yes, oh my goodness) we wanted to take a moment to remind you of the free shipping we have available.   Now through Dec 2012 all orders over $100 ship free!

In search of the perfect gift for a toddler please let us know. One of our trained staff would be happy to give you some ideas. Please contact us via email or phone.

Have a great week!

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